Read more about Abiele and her experiences living in a conservative household, and being raised in a Muslim country. She shares with us her learnings, apprehensions and victories in her journey of self exploration!
✨#NoShameNovember w/ @frisky.ultd ✨
Are the kids asleep yet? I hope not bc I’ve got some ate advice to share with them
You are allowed to be intrigued and interested in the notion of pleasure - no ifs, ands, or buts! (I’m telling you this as the sheltered youngest and only daughter in an Asian family that was raised in a Muslim country so societal standars are just as construct lol) 💅🏽
Growing up, it wasn’t just hard to talk about sex, it was a topic completely locked in a box and never spoken about which obviously fueled my curiosity. Especially as a girl because I later found out that pleasure is something women are meant to naturally be providers of but are discouraged from learning about (absolutely whack tbh) 😮💨
So I realized that it was up to me to take my sexual education into my own hands and it was one of the best decisions I’ve made. It was what I needed to complete the base of my self love where I would build the person I wanted to be on 🧘🏽
Not only was I happier and found a new way to destress but I also had more respect for myself and felt more confident in my body. There’s a fulfilling peace that comes with getting to understand yourself more and knowing that I’m not broken bc my pleasure doesn’t look the way it does in all those romcoms I’ve consumed 😅
It’s been 6 years since I started my self love journey and I was so happy to have been given the chance to start to a new chapter with the Alexca (₱1,199) clit sucker 💟
As a first time sex toy user, it’s exciting to know that there’s still a lot to learn about my body and that it’s easy to do! At the end of the day your sexuality is an integral part of you so feel free (when you’re ready) to learn what you like and what you don’t with whatever and whoever it may be (so long as it’s consensual) 🙌🏽
This is my first collab post and I’m so happy that it’s with Frisky! This campaign touches so many issues I hold near and dear to my heart as a feminist and holisitc health advocate that’s got a long way to go! 🥰